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Semalem gw mimpi pergi ke luar negeri pake duit sendiri. Trus ntahlah tp brgktnya sepesawat tn Ira sm om Demy jg. Di sananya mencar. Trs papa gatau kl gw ke Thailand. Trs gw kesana pake duit sendiri, soalnya inget banget mikir, jir inj baru tiket kesini 3 jt. Kalo ditotal2 sm tiket balik jd 6 jt ya, jir abis jg tabungan gw. Trs kyk itu jg impulsif gt kesananya (cz who tf pergi ga beli tiket plg???). Trs disana gw stay sm 2 org cowo lain gt. Yg satu pawang lebah. Trus gw ngunciin dia sm lebah2nya krn takut. Trus koper gw ternyata ketinggalan di bagasinya tn ira. Trs gw berusaha nelpon.

I have a friend. He's a fighter. He believes that he has to fight to get everything that he wants out of life, and that quitting means losing. At first I admired his courage. This man swallowed his pride in pursue of his dreams. But soon enough, I realize that his persistence doesn't stem from confidence. It comes from the need to prove himself. It's merely another form of insecurity.  Dispite his best efforts, he keeps on getting rejected. In love, in his career, in social settings, in life. And with every rejection he learns to believe that he's not enough. He grow to hate himself. The problem is, some people can't differentiate grit and force. I believe there's a break even point to these kind of situations. It's true, you shouldn't give up easily. But it doesn't mean that you should scar your self-worth by morphing yourself to fit into a place you don't belong. It doesn't mean you should waste countless hours trying to please a person who